My blog has been stagnant for almost a year. So many wonderful things have happened in that time, and I have much to write and share about those experiences, but it would be very poor form to let today pass without a post. I am, after all, the Transplanted Dad, and today is Father's Day. While many fun and memorable experiences occurred today, for me, nothing could quite surpass what happened last Saturday. On our calendar, it was an unassuming family event-- picture day for my son's Little League team. A scheduling fluke meant our son didn't have a game that day, but his team needed to get dressed in their blue and white uniforms for their team and individual photos. Less than 48 hours before picture day, the coach sent me an email, and a dream come true was in the making.
Sunday, June 18, 2017
Saturday, August 20, 2016
This coming week I will have a "longread" that captures my thoughts, feelings, and experiences from honor my donor and celebrating my second Transplantaversary. For the moment, as the clock nears the hour when I was wheeled back for surgery two years ago, I share this photo and its context:
As you can tell, my son is pointing... but at what?
He's getting me to look at a cloud formation directly in front of the setting sun. He realized, before I did, that it looked like the famous cliff from the Lion King. He said, "Dad, doesn't that look like the circle of life?"
Considering the circumstances that led us to that beach, that moment... It was pristine, innocently wise, and unforgettable.
Special thanks to my niece Taylor who was using her fancy camera to take photos throughout the evening. You will see more of her work in future posts.
Monday, July 18, 2016
I've been to many beaches since my transplant nearly two years ago-- but not this one. The first and only other time I've been to my brother-in-law's cottage, I was on the transplant list, on oxygen, and definitely not ready to face the steep stairs to the beach.
I stayed up near the volleyball net and tried, without much success, to chase my son around while wearing a portable oxygen concentrator on my back.
This visit was so much different. It included a lightsaber battle and races on the sand. It was so satisfying to reclaim what I'd been unable to do two years ago.
Tuesday, June 21, 2016
This year, I spent Father's Day totally one-on-one with my son, since my wife is currently taking her mom and aunt on a tour of Ireland, an my own dad's plans (along with the plans of my two brothers) did not permit all of us to be in the same place at the same time.
Thursday, May 26, 2016
"Memorialis" is Latin for "serving as a reminder." The past two weekends have been filled with moments that have reminded me of how fortunate I am. They've been crammed with so many joyful experiences-- events that I would not have lived to see without my donor. In this post I examine what these past two weekends would have been like for my wife and son if my donor hadn't given me this second chance at life...
Thursday, May 19, 2016
Last week, I shared the Rocky Recreation video here on the blog, but also to the Gift of Life Michigan Facebook page. Since that day, it has been viewed over 18,000 times. As of yesterday, that number was 16,000. One of the individuals who runs the GOLM Facebook page sent me an email with more metrics, and they are in the image below.
I know one cannot declare his or herself as having "gone viral," but my wife said that I am one
local news story or a share on the Donate Life America webpage from earning that label.
I hope, beyond reaching people already invested in the concept of organ and tissue donation,
that I am one day able to reach a large audience of those who are not the most likely candidates
to consider becoming donors.
Right now I am starting small; I have spoken to 180+ kids over the past five days, all of whom
are students at the high school I used to teach at. Speaking to them about my transplant
experience and the importance of being a donor is, I feel, the least I can do with my skills and
this incredible second chance at life. I hope to share portions of these talks with you in the
Monday, May 9, 2016
This past weekend held many "firsts" for me. My first trip to the Philadelphia. My first time flying alone. And, the primary reason for this post, my first time flying since the transplant.